Saturday, October 25, 2008

all the kids



i will now be changing this a little, to be able to talk about all my amazing children. i hope to be able to use this at least as some small journal, even if only for myself. scrapbooking just isn't for me, and even though i take tons of pictures and videos, there is never enough time for me to organize them, and put them all together, so i'm hoping that this will help a little.




brendan did so very well during his surgery. he is very swollen right now, which started the day after we got home. thankfully, i know someone who's daughter had the same surgery 7 months ago on the west coast. she is a nurse, and said the scariest part was how much swelling there was, and she thought her daughter's face looked like it was about to explode! well, believe it or not, those words comforted me, as i watched brendan look very much in the halloween season :) he has a hard time sitting and icing it, and honestly, after 15 minutes, the cycle repeats. his eyes are starting to get a little discolored, but still what a trooper.


several years ago, when brendan went through his first surgical proceedure with me by his side, i wrote to a friend that he was MY HERO. He'd put his arm out for blood, sit up, lay down, whatever was asked. thursday made me remember my comments from the years before. it's funny how the big things he handles so well, and the small things set him off, like telling him he has to do homework :)





Sunday, October 19, 2008

one month







Wow! We have been home a month now, and busy is certainly an understatement. MaZhu continues to make a nice transition, with only a few meltdowns now a day (some of nuclear proportions) but many of them have to do with not wanting to share, or being where he shouldn't be, epsecially when involving being outdoors. I know it is hard for him not to have the same "priveleges" and freedoms that his siblings have. Mostly b/c he has no safety awareness when outside.
School continues...he still goes and comes home with a smile, so that is good. He is settling in to esl, and his teacher really seems to be getting him, for which I am thankful.

His language is picking up, so is my ability to understand his mandarin. He is also very good at his ability to get you to know what he has to say. 2 weeks ago, my son evan was home from the Marines, and came to the kids elementary school the next day. MaZhu gave me a whole story at dinner, talking a mile a minute and gesturing, pointing to his shoulders and several other things, and I knew that he saw Evan at school.

I returned to work :( but it is a necessary evil. Being off for 6 weeks without pay plus having no check for the next 5 weeks really wreaks havoc, but we will get past this, somehow we always make it through.

On a different note, my oldest daughter Janine, got engaged last Friday night. What an exciting time. And that coupled with she is going to law school in January, is making for lots of changes in her life that are so exciting,






Last thing, please send prayers for Brendan. He is having bone graft surgery on thursday, the 23rd. He knows that he will be on a soft diet for 2 weeks at least, which will probably be my biggest challenge, since anyone who knows him, knows how much and often he likes to eat. I will be stocking up on puddings and jellos, as well as soup.